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Time Will Tell

To be completely honest, I’ve literally written and edited this post at least five times.  I should insert a disclosure that states that I’m not really sure what the essence of this post is, but that it’s well intentioned, haha!  It’s also not a sponsored post (although I did get a free watch from Daniel Wellington insert smiley face emoji here).

Basically the title of this post has never had a more profound impact on me than it does now.

[prepare to bust out the movie theatre popcorn right about now]

Ever since we’ve entered into the New Year, I feel like I’ve spent hours reflecting on life.  I don’t know if it’s because the kids are getting older or because I’m getting older.  I don’t know if it’s because I’m constantly wondering what I’m doing or where I’m going in life.  Is it because I doubt myself often?  There’s so many questions and I know these questions will be answered over time.

Often times, I end up in a café sipping on that perfect cup of latte and chatting endlessly with friends.  We tend to reflect on our lives and how we got there.  We inspire and encourage each other.  We push each other to do better, to do more.  We also remind each other to relax and take time for ourselves.  To stay true to ourselves.

I guess the reason behind this post is that what you see on social media isn’t real life.  I’m sure you’ve heard this time and time again, but I know we’re all guilty of scrolling through our Instagram feeds and stories, and wishing our lives could be like that other girl who has the “perfect life”.  I’m totally guilty of that on a daily!  It makes me feel completely overwhelmed and (almost) triggers the need to turn my back on social media altogether.

But then I always end up back in this very moment.  I honestly wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for social media and my Instagram/blog community.  I’ve met so many influential individuals and I’ve been honoured to work with so many businesses.  This platform has given me a voice and I’m so thankful for that.  So because of that, I’m going to keep pushing forward and hopefully become more inspired to create content that’ll keep bringing you guys back!

I’m not really sure where this post is going LOL, but if you’re still with me, THANK YOU (HAHA)!!  Thanks for listening to me ramble and thanks for following along.  It means the world to me!

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Speaking of Daniel Wellington, don’t forget to use code THESWANKSOCIAL for 15% off your next DW purchase!  Plus, they have a new website for our Canadian friends with free shipping and a no COD promise.  I’d say that’s a win-win!

Happy shopping, friends!


Photos:  Janelle Saccucci

Disclosure: This is not a sponsored post, but I did receive free product from Daniel Wellington in exchange for Instagram posts.  The opinions and views in this post are my own and do not reflect the opinion or views of Daniel Wellington and/or their affiliates.

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New Years Refresh with Project Skin MD

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What better way to kick off the New Year than with a post-holiday, hello 2018 refresh from Project Skin MD?Project Skin MD lounge

At the beginning of Fall (yes, last year lol!), I had the honour of experiencing the Silk Peel Microdermabrasion Treatment at, in my opinion, the best lifestyle clinic focused purely on skin health and natural beauty.  At 34, I’m still in denial at the thought of “aging” and have always thought that anti-aging creams and regimens would be a thing in the far, far future.  Now, when I look in the mirror, I’m not sure if I should be kicking myself or kick-starting a skin care regimen to preserve what’s left of my youth 😉  Probably the latter…

To be honest, I’ve never been one to be overly obsessed with the latest and greatest in skincare and makeup products.  My skincare routine is literally cleanse, moisturize, cleanse, moisturize.  I typically purchase my cleansers and moisturizers from the local drugstore – a habit that my skin care specialist at Project Skin MD highly recommended against (more on why later on in this post).  As I age, I’m more curious about what products are out there, what procedures are available to me (short of plastic surgery) and what steps I can take to make sure I age gracefully.  Sure genetics seem to be on my side, but I am noticing those famous laugh lines and forehead frown lines (I have this weird habit of squinting my eyes and frowning when I’m in deep concentration – probably as a result of poor vision LOL).

Back to my Project Skin MD experience!  First of all, have you ever been to a boutique clinic where you can tell the owners and their interior designer nailed every little detail of their design and decor – so much so that no matter where you turn, it’s completely Instagrammable?  I mean…

Project Skin MD lounge

And then there’s the actual treatment.  Talk about rejuvenating, refreshing and Project Skin’s promise, R&R = Results & Relaxation – all the ‘R’ words!!  The treatment began in the PS Glow Room – a space within Project Skin MD that opened in November 2016, solely dedicated to introductory medical aesthetic services such as medical facials, peels and microdermabrasion.

I initially anticipated the Silk Peel Microdermabrasion Treatment to be slightly painful because of all the stories I used to hear from back in the day about microdermabrasion (they’re all exaggerated!) and the after effects (think red, burnt skin).  This microdermabrasion treatment had none of the above and I can attest to the fact that I felt like my skin had undergone a deep, deep much-needed clean.  Using a diamond treatment tip with vacuum and suction technologies (it feels funny at first, but you’ll get used to it!) to exfoliate and remove dull skin cells from your face, this treatment was unlike any facial I’ve ever experienced.  My skin actually felt CLEAN and refreshed!

And why should only my face feel clean and refreshed?  I’m so excited to partner up with Project Skin MD to give one of my lucky followers/readers a chance to win their very own Silk Peel Microdermabrasion Treatment experience!!  To enter, please use the Rafflecopter form below.  Entrants must be 18 years or older and able to attend the Vancouver location of Project Skin MD for their treatment.

Disclosure:  All opinions in this review remain my own and do not reflect the opinions or views of Project Skin MD, PS Glow Room and/or their affiliates.  We received a complimentary Silk Peel Microdermabrasion Treatment in order to complete this review.

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Experience Ayurveda: Bombay Beauty Co. + a Giveaway!

Bombay beauty co rose clay mask ayurveda

Every single relationship I’ve made through social media over the past few years has made a tremendous impact in my life and has not only allowed me to explore my creative curiosities, but they’ve also shaped me into the person I am today.  Without the encouragement and support of all of the inspiring women (and men!) that give me that push, whether positive or negative, The Swank Social wouldn’t be where it is today.

So when the CEO of Bombay Brow Bar reached out to me about her new (and absolutely GORGEOUS) concept store located in the Fairmont Waterfront Hotel, I was smiling from ear to ear.  You see, Ravy and I first connected years ago – I’m thinking it was around 7-8 years ago – at the time when Bombay Brow Bar was just starting out and my family blog, SwankMama, was taking off.  I remember her being so sweet and thoughtful, but we never had a chance to connect other than through email.  Years flew by, life went on and we added a few kids into the mix, and here we are today!

Ravy recently launched her concept store, Bombay Beauty Co., which is focused around balance and the beauty of Ayurveda.  The story behind Ravy’s newest venture is inspiring yet heartbreaking, but her passion and the reason why she started creating her own line of natural beauty and skin products using the Ayurveda practice, and what later evolved into the space now known as Bombay Beauty Co., is the type of story that inspires me on a daily basis.

As soon as you walk into Bombay Beauty Co., you’ll notice that Ravy has incorporated its sister brand, Bombay Brow Bar, into the design, decor and colour palette.  Think rich marble floors and accents, dramatic curtains and mirrors, and touches of gold sprinkled throughout.  Trust me, as soon as you get over the gorgeousness of it all, you’ll almost forget the real reason you came!

I was treated to their signature Bombay Rose Facial – a therapeutic and luxurious Ayurvidic inspired clay facial experience using Bombay Beauty Co.’s all natural Bombay Rose Signature Collection.  It was seriously the most relaxing facial I’ve ever indulged in.  Not only can you feel the mask gently extracting all of your skin’s impurities, but you’ll be able to relax for the full 40 minute treatment while enjoying a calming hand and head massage.  While there aren’t any physical extractions performed during the facial, my face instantly felt rejuvenated and more nourished (the cold weather is doing a number on my skin!).

Ravy and her team have also created a house line of all-natural Ayurvedic inspired skin care products locally made in Vancouver.  When speaking with Ravy about her inspiration and desire to ensure that her skin care line is accessible by every woman can experience the beauty of Ayurveda at an affordable price.  After all, self-care equals self-confidence and self-love – three of Bombay Beauty Co.’s empowering mantras!

Win a Beauty of Ayurveda Experience!

Bombay Beauty Co. has generously offered to give away TWO Bombay Rose Facials to one of our lucky readers – one for the winner and one for their BFF!  To enter, please use the Rafflecopter form below.  The giveaway is open worldwide to entrants 18 years of age and over.  You must be able to claim your treatments at Bombay Beauty Co. located at 829 West Cordova, Vancouver, BC, Canada (inside the Fairmont Waterfront Hotel).

Disclosure:  All opinions in this review remain my own and do not reflect the opinions or views of Bombay Beauty Co., Bombay Brow Bar and/or their affiliates.  We received a complimentary Bombay Rose Facial in order to complete this review.

Photography:  Janelle Saccucci

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A Winters Dream Holiday Tablescape

It’s already December (how?!) and all I can do is reminisce about a holiday styled shoot I created a few years back with my lovely and very talented friend, Amy from Confetti and Co.!

When I started The Swank Social, it was all about celebrations, confetti and creative collaborations.  It was a fun time and I made so many connections through the work that I did, but it wasn’t fulfilling enough for me.  Plus, I had a personal reason why I decided to go back to work full-time (best decision ever!) and slowly concentrate on growing The Swank Social as a blog during my spare time lifestyle blog.  It only took a year to finally grasp and understand how to balance my time.

Actually, scratch that.

I still don’t know how to balance my time.  I’m almost certain that I’ll never figure that out, but here we are!

Okay, back to the holidays and Christmas.  And back to the days where a crisp, white studio space was extremely hard to come by.  We booked (the now defunct) Sugar Studios for our collaborative shoot and started working our magic:

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While I do miss the days where I got to plan and execute events that were dear to my clients’ hearts, I’m so fortunate to have this social platform that allows me to keep creating, collaborating and styling!  Currently, I’m just trying to let it settle in that it’s almost Christmas!!

xx Kristina



Styling:  The Swank Social and Confetti & Co. | Photography:  Studio 86 Creative Design | Floral Arrangements:  Celsia Floral | Placecard Cookies:  Whisk | Wooden Name Placecards and Balloons:  Confetti & Co. | Custom Menu and Print:  Kardz Kouture | Plates and Table Decor:  The Cross Design | Chairs:  Eclat Decor


Flatware:  West Elm | Glassware, Wooden Chargers and Napkins:  Indigo

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Rooftop High Tea Engagement Surprise

I know you’re thinking that I maybe, possibly planned a surprise engagement but, no, this is even better!  We partnered with Secret Garden Tea Company, Kim Crawford and K’pure Naturals to plan a top secret high tea to celebrate a friend’s recent engagement.

The venue?  A rooftop overlooking the downtown skyline, of course!  While it was just our luck that the air was still filled with smog from the forest fires raging north of our city, we couldn’t have asked for a better setting for our high tea.

First things first – connecting with the amazing Secret Garden Tea Company, who provided a decadent spread of their famous savoury and sweet petite fours from their seasonal high tea menu – complete with their gorgeous tea cups, saucers and tiered trays (and they’re also available for rent!).  The lovely Jam PR team was also on site to assist in the set up of Secret Garden’s high tea to go and to ensure everything went smoothly.

And it’s not a proper high tea without a glass of Kim Crawford Sauvignon Blanc together with a splash of frozen berries for a special twist on a classic favourite:

Although the air was hazy (it looked like something out of a movie!), the surprise was a complete success!  The guest of honour was treated to a gift bag filled with goodies from local natural body care line, K’Pure Naturals, and of course a bottle of Kim Crawford wine.

Our table set up was completed with a small bouquet from Blossom and Vine Floral Co., Smooch lip balms from K’pure Naturals, macarons and a rose gold ‘love’ balloon from North Star Balloons.


[Sponsors] High Tea:  The Secret Garden Tea Company | Wine:  Kim Crawford | Swag:  K’pure Naturals

Florals:  Blossom and Vine Floral Co. | Balloon:  North Star Balloons | Photography:  Janelle Saccucci |  Venue:  Rooftop

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How Do You KIND?

In a world filled with immense negativity, it’s always refreshing to come out of the day with a positive attitude and knowing that you’ve somehow made a difference – either your life or someone else’s.  That’s all the more reason why I’ve teamed up with KIND for World Kindness Day to help spread a little kindness and also share how I plan to leave a KIND legacy in my own life.

Not only is KIND committed to ensuring their snack line is healthy and tasty for their consumers (one of their mottos is “if you can’t pronounce the ingredient, it shouldn’t go into your body”), they are fully committed to fostering and. nurturing the communities around them and to make the world KINDer.  Hence why they started the KIND Movement.


My Relationships

Now in my 30’s with two kids of my own, it’s only recently that I realized that the kinder I am to myself and my body, the kinder I am to the loved ones around me.  We recently moved out to the suburbs, but still work in the city (and the kids go to school in the city), so the daily commute kills us.  It’s completely random whether there’s a bumper-to-bumper traffic jam or whether we zip through the freeway at record times.  On a typical weekday, I’m drained and by the end of the week, not even five cups of coffee could save me.  So, recently, I’ve made a commitment to myself that I will go to bed at least an hour earlier and try to not hit the snooze button when my alarm goes off in the morning (I find that makes me even more tired/groggy – does that happen to you too?).  Trust me, I’m a much happier/kinder person when I’ve gotten my beauty sleep 🙂  I’m also more tolerant and compassionate towards my kids – two qualities that are very important for me to pass on to them.

I’m also trying to be more conscious about my relationship with my step-daughter.  She’s almost 18 and finishing up her last year at high school.  The dynamics are definitely different and, because I’ve helped raise her full-time since she was around 8 years old and she lives with us, it’s been a struggle between my boundaries and hers.  The respect goes both ways and I’m still very much learning how to juggle to balance.  After all, we kind of go through this whole parenting thing blindly, don’t we?

And who can forget about hubby?!  We make a conscious effort to spend at least an hour together every evening – even if it means cuddling up on the couch and watching our favourite Netflix shows.  I recall my step-daughter commenting on this after I was telling her that I need to start going to bed earlier and all she saw was that we just sat on the couch and watched TV every night.  Little does she know why!

My Body

While I struggle with time management in my personal life, I’ve made a solid commitment to myself to watch what I eat and to start working on my fitness again.  It’s time to tone up my body and get rid of my “mama butt”, as my kids call it, haha!  To be continued…

Our Surroundings

It’s very important for me to raise my kids with empathy, manners and awareness of others.  That could be simply holding a door open for the person behind them, saying “please”, “thank you” and “excuse me”, doing chores around the house (that includes laundry, cleaning their room and picking up toys, and taking out the garbage).  Smiling.  Acknowledgement.  No electronic devices (our decision in the past couple years and it’s been working for us – no judgment otherwise).  I just want them to grow up to be a KIND person.


We’ve partnered with KIND to spread some KINDness on World KINDness Day (November 13th).  Share with us how you plan to spread KINDness today and everyday, and you could win a KIND prize pack.  The giveaway is open to Canadian residents 18+ years.  Head over to my Instagram page (@theswanksocial) to enter!

Disclosure:  All opinions and views in this post remain my own and do not reflect those of KIND Snacks and/or their affiliates.  We received a KINDness starter kit in exchange for this post.


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Welcome to the New Swank Social

It’s been a while since I’ve posted in this space and I’m so excited to share the new Swank Social with all of you!!

What started out as a passion for styling, has evolved into a collective space to showcase my love for all things design, interiors, social events and lifestyle.  I’m also extremely excited to share the before and after transformation of our home renovation project – one that has become a product of our blood, sweat and tears (not literally…well maybe the sweat part), and amounted from a labour of love.

I can’t wait to share my journey with you and to see where this new adventure takes me.  I’m a strong believer of if you don’t try, you don’t get – so come on and give it to me! 😉

Welcome to the NEW Swank Social!

xo kristina

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